“Fetishes are only ethical when they involve mutual consent and when everyone has the ability to step back. That’s not possible with racial fetishes, which is why they shouldn’t be tolerated in the fetish community or anywhere else. This isn’t about ‘preference’ or things that are out of your control. This is about race, history, culture, and a refusal to acknowledge your role in the complex systems used to maintain our social structure. As long as it’s okay to objectify women on the basis of their race, women of colour will never be equal.”—http://meloukhia.net/2013/09/things_that_shouldnt_need_to_be_said_racial_fetishes_edition/ (via smashityclashure)
Hey. So, I just found a website I’m really excited about. It’s called True&Co and they sell lingerie. Obviously, I’m always excited about lingerie, but they do something extra special. First, they have a bunch of different sizes. I haven’t gone through too much of the site yet, but so far I’ve seen band sizes from twenty-eight to fifty-six and cups up to K. The main thing that’s exciting, though, is the free in-home try-on service. Free shipping both ways. You select five bras or other pieces of lingerie that they recommend for you based on a size and fit quiz. Then they send them to you and you send back whatever you don’t want. Like, that’s so awesome to me.
If you want to try them and get $15 off, message me your email address and I’ll send you their invitation thing. The bras I’ve seen so far are at least $44, but the undies are a little more reasonable.
He was a super meanie today (I totes provoked it. I sort of actually asked for it) and my butt hurts more than anything should hurt ever. It’s not even bruised, just these massive welts all over. They’ll be bruises soon, I’m sure. And he fucked my ass with very minimal lube and it hurts every time I move. And now I have to put in the plug for bed. Life is so nice and awful at the same time. Being a masochist is confusing.